Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Passive aggressive behavior PISSES me off y'all

WARNING...shameless venting here...

Seriously, quit pussyfooting around and make a fucking decision, stand up for yourself, voice your damn opinion, and let the dominoes fall where they fucking fall. Seriously y'all, just sayin!

Just over a year ago, I accepted a promotion which meant moving from the field to the corporate office. There is an entire list of reasons why I did what I did and most days everything is A-OK. This week, however, it's so fucking not. Without boring y'all to death with my property tax woes, I'm going to try and get this off my chest so that maybe I can have a better fucking day today than yesterday.

Seriously, we have a 4 person group, a manager, a senior agent, an agent, and me the newbie who's just an analyst. I have eleventy billion years of administrative experience, these people in my group, they don't. They can barely run copies and file and they don't file RIGHT (which equates to my way just sayin) and I am damn good at it. Also, since I'm new, I don't have a ton to do because I just don't know how yet. There has been miscommunication about who does what counties and I've had e-fucking-nough of finding out AFTER the fact that three of the four of us have worked the same county and two of those three have actually MAILED returns to the county.

So, I say, I am going to fix this and my two coworkers tell me they don't make decisions, they ask permission. OMeffinG fucking SERIOUSLY...make a fucking decision, tell the boss what was done, and see what happens.

Today, that is my mission, making this shit flow better...period and if the boss doesn't like it, he can fire my mean, hateful, bitchy ass.

UPDATE...as I was finishing the last sentence, the boss came into my cube and I let 'er rip and I told him that noone wants to make a decision or actually do anything, so I AM and that's that. He said GREAT and THANK YOU cuz it's needed to be done for 10 years!

13 comments:

  1. Well there you go! Congrats on making the shit finally flow. LOL You are too damn funny!

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  2. says, I think we are having the same week.

    Thank GOD it is only 92 days til the River!!!

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  3. ROFL See? It pays to speak up! Good for you:>

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  4. I've always said it's better to ask for forgiveness than for permission. Go get 'em and take no prisoners! (Unless someone needs to be caged and whupped, then I say make the decision to do that too!)

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  5. sic em girl. I hate wishy washy people too. Drives me flipping crazy

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  6. Fuck up yo. Thank fuck it's almost Friday...sayin

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  7. Get 'em!! You're my kinda girl!! I hate time wasters!

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  8. You'll be running the office in no time and much more efficiently methinks.

    Way to go!

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  9. You go girl. That is usually how it works !! Someone wants you to step up and make the decision!!

    As for the passive-agressive behavior. My boss is that way... AHHH drives me nuts. He won't tell me what to do. He says if you wouldn't mind could you... blah, blah, blah. Or if it isn't too much to ask... blah, blah, blah. I am like come on guy ... you are the boss. TELL ME WHAT IT IS YOU WANT. AHHH.LOL Now thank you for letting me vent. ;)

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  10. Yahoo! I was just going to ask you to let us know how it went and I'm so glad we got the update at the end of this post! Good for you girl, go get 'em.

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  11. Way to go! I think you need a raise!

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  12. But will the respect you in the morning???? *snicker*

    way to go!!!!

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  13. way to set them straight girlie!

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